Surrogacy with Peony

Surrogacy, with clarity and care for everyone involved.

Peony gives you a clear, step-by-step surrogacy plan – from "is this right for us?" through legal, financial, and emotional support – without acting as an agency or taking success-based fees.

Built for every family. Privacy-first by design.

Why surrogacy feels overwhelming

Surrogacy is life-changing. It shouldn't require a second full-time job.

Most people start surrogacy with a handful of Google tabs, a friend-of-a-friend's story, and quotes ranging anywhere from $80,000 to over $200,000. It's a lot.

Families tell us they feel:

  • Lost in jargon – agencies, independent paths, escrow, pre-birth orders, medical clearance…
  • Blindsided by costs – fees that show up late, unclear what's "required" vs "nice to have."
  • Pulled in different directions – clinics saying one thing, attorneys another, online groups another.
  • Alone in big decisions – especially around ethics, compensation, and emotional support for the surrogate.

Peony exists to give you one trusted place to understand your options, make decisions, and move forward with a clear, values-aligned plan.

What Peony is

We're your surrogacy guide and guardrails. Not your agency.

Peony is…

  • A neutral, expert-vetted guide through every step of surrogacy – clinical, legal, financial, and emotional.
  • A cross-path navigator that helps you compare surrogacy with other options (fertility care, donor conception, adoption) based on your goals, health, and resources.
  • A privacy-first platform that treats your family-building data like health data, not marketing data.
  • A curated network of clinics, attorneys, agencies, and mental health providers who meet clear standards for ethics and inclusivity.

Peony is not…

  • Not a surrogacy agency.
  • Not a match facilitator taking success-based fees.
  • Not a single-path app pushing you toward one answer.
  • Not selling your data to advertisers or brokers.

That means our only job is to help you choose the right path and the right partners for your family – not to steer you into any one program.

How it works

A clear surrogacy roadmap, tailored to you.

Every surrogacy path is unique, but there are predictable steps. Peony organizes them, so you're never guessing what comes next.

1

Clarity & Fit

"Is surrogacy right for us, right now?"

  • Private intake to understand your health history, family structure, location, budget, and values.
  • Compare surrogacy with fertility care, donor conception, and adoption based on your situation.
  • Get a personalized 'Surrogacy Fit Overview' with pros, tradeoffs, and alternative paths.
2

Plan & Budget

"What will this actually take?"

  • Transparent cost ranges for different surrogacy models (agency-led vs more independent).
  • Benefits and insurance review: what's covered, what isn't, where to push.
  • A step-by-step task list with timelines, from medical workup to legal contracts.
3

Choose Your Team

"Who do we trust to walk this with us?"

  • Guidance on how to evaluate clinics, attorneys, and agencies – with questions to ask and red flags to watch for.
  • Access to vetted providers inside Peony, with clear, compliance-safe profiles.
  • Support in deciding whether to work with an agency, go more independent, or use a hybrid approach.
4

Navigate the Path

"We're in it. Help us stay sane."

  • Milestone checklists for both you and your surrogate.
  • Micro-communities for surrogacy (by stage), moderated by trained hosts.
  • Emotional health resources for intended parents, surrogates, and partners.
5

After Birth & Beyond

"What happens after baby arrives?"

  • Guidance on parental rights formalization and post-birth logistics.
  • Support in talking about surrogacy with your child and extended family.
  • Ongoing access to Peony as your family grows and changes.

Why Peony

Why families choose Peony for surrogacy – and stay with us beyond it.

Cross-Path Perspective

Most surrogacy apps only support one path. Peony helps you compare surrogacy with other family-building options, so you can be confident you're not missing something important.

Privacy You Don't Have to Ask For

We treat your reproductive and family-building data as sensitive health information. No third-party trackers in sensitive flows, no data sold, and no surprise sharing with advertisers.

No Success-Based Fees

We do not earn more money if you choose a particular clinic, agency, or path. Our model is built so our incentives are aligned with your long-term wellbeing, not a single transaction.

Inclusive by design: Solo parents, LGBTQ+ families, and blended families are first-class participants at every step.

Trauma-informed: We understand grief, loss, and change are part of many paths.

Built by people who've walked complex family-building paths themselves.

Support for intended parents and surrogates, not just one side.

Intended Parents

Anchor in clarity, not chaos.

  • Understand the full landscape before committing tens or hundreds of thousands of dollars.
  • Get a clear timeline and budget, with fewer "I wish someone had told us" moments.
  • Learn how to build a healthy, ethical relationship with your surrogate from day one.
  • Access Peony micro-rooms to connect with other intended parents at your stage.

Surrogates

Feel informed, respected, and supported.

  • Learn what to expect medically, legally, and emotionally before you commit.
  • Understand compensation structures and your rights in plain language.
  • Explore how to choose intended parents and professionals who align with your values.
  • Access emotional health resources and community through your path.

We believe surrogacy only works when everyone – intended parents, surrogates, partners, and children – is treated with care and respect.

Trust & Privacy

Your family story is yours. We keep it that way.

Surrogacy paths involve some of the most sensitive information you'll ever share – from fertility history and legal agreements to financial arrangements and personal stories.

Peony is built to protect that:

  • Privacy-first by design – we minimize data collection, limit access, and design flows without third-party tracking for sensitive actions.
  • Transparent data practices – we're clear about what we collect, why, and how it's used. No dark patterns, no hidden consents.
  • Ethical marketplace – we do not take success-based fees from clinics, agencies, or attorneys. Our information and recommendations are grounded in standards of care, not kickbacks.

We want you to feel proud to share your family-building story one day – not worried about where your data might have ended up.

Peony in your ecosystem

Designed to work alongside your doctors, attorneys, and benefits – not replace them.

Peony doesn't diagnose, practice medicine, or offer legal advice. Instead, we help you:

  • Make the most of your existing fertility and family-building benefits, wherever they live.
  • Ask better questions in consults with clinics, lawyers, and agencies – with checklists and prep guides.
  • Keep your surrogacy plan, documents, and to-dos in one place, even as your team changes.

Explore Surrogacy Laws by State

Surrogacy laws differ widely — some states have comprehensive protections, while others limit or prohibit agreements. Explore surrogacy-friendly states or select yours below.

Choose your state for personalized guidance:

FAQs

Frequently Asked Questions

Is Peony a surrogacy agency or matching service?

No. Peony is not a surrogacy agency, facilitator, or matching service, and we do not take success-based fees. We're a neutral navigation and education platform that helps you compare paths, choose partners, and stay organized and supported throughout your path.

Can Peony help us if we've already chosen an agency or clinic?

Yes. Many families come to Peony after they've already started. We help you understand your contracts, pressure-test your plan, and stay emotionally and logistically supported from where you are now.

Do you support LGBTQ+ families and solo parents?

Yes. Peony is built for every kind of family – couples, solo parents by choice, LGBTQ+ parents, blended and kinship families. Our guides, community rooms, and provider standards are inclusive by design, not as an add-on.

How does Peony make money?

We're primarily supported by transparent membership and concierge fees, and flat-fee listings for providers. We do not earn more if you choose a particular clinic, agency, or path.

Is my information secure and private?

We treat your family-building data as sensitive health information. We minimize what we collect, limit who can see it, and avoid third-party tracking in sensitive flows. We will never sell your data to advertisers or data brokers.

Ready to feel clear about surrogacy?

In about 5 minutes, Peony can walk you through an initial surrogacy fit check and outline your next three best steps – whether that's surrogacy or a different path entirely.

Privacy-first. Here for every path to parenthood.